June 16
Yesterday we scattered Norm’s ashes at Water Rock Knob on the Blue Ridge Parkway. Norm enjoyed the drive on that road. Pre cancer, he would go every couple of weeks to hike and take pictures. It seemed appropriate to spread his ashes where he loved to be.
We arrived shortly after sunrise, but there was no view due to the early morning fog and mist. While a spectacular view would have been nice, a misty day fit my heart. And Norm never minded the fog, he could find something to photograph and make it look awesome.
It was harder than I expected…even though I’m not sure what I expected. It felt final. I don’t know how to deal with that feeling.
My children, Jennifer, Aimee and Robert came along with my grandchildren, Sierra and Sawyer and Jennifer’s boyfriend, Ideen. His brother Brian came. My sister came with her boyfriend, Jim. All of them had a special relationship with Norm.
After the emotional morning, we went out for breakfast, Norm’s favorite eat out meal. Then we went to play miniature golf, our family tradition at all events, followed by ice cream. Great memories.
Where’s the joy?
I am thankful for the life of love and joy that I had with Norm. He was a great husband and friend.
I pray for wisdom as I continue to walk this path I would not have chosen.
I rejoice that Norm touched so many lives with his unique view of life, his stories and his photos.
Where’s the joy? This week it is all in the memories.
TRICIA LATHROP 